AJR & Co.

AJR & Co.AJR & Co.AJR & Co.
Home
Services
  • Individual Therapy
  • Psychological Assessment
  • Consulting Services
About
Resources
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Imposter Syndrome
  • Pregnancy & Postpartum
  • Relaxation & Mindfulness
  • Self-Compassion
  • Values-Based Living
Media
Blog
Client Portal

AJR & Co.

AJR & Co.AJR & Co.AJR & Co.
Home
Services
  • Individual Therapy
  • Psychological Assessment
  • Consulting Services
About
Resources
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Imposter Syndrome
  • Pregnancy & Postpartum
  • Relaxation & Mindfulness
  • Self-Compassion
  • Values-Based Living
Media
Blog
Client Portal
More
  • Home
  • Services
    • Individual Therapy
    • Psychological Assessment
    • Consulting Services
  • About
  • Resources
    • ADHD
    • Anxiety
    • Imposter Syndrome
    • Pregnancy & Postpartum
    • Relaxation & Mindfulness
    • Self-Compassion
    • Values-Based Living
  • Media
  • Blog
  • Client Portal
  • Sign In
  • Create Account

  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Signed in as:

  • filler@godaddy.com


  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Sign out


Signed in as:

filler@godaddy.com

  • Home
  • Services
    • Individual Therapy
    • Psychological Assessment
    • Consulting Services
  • About
  • Resources
    • ADHD
    • Anxiety
    • Imposter Syndrome
    • Pregnancy & Postpartum
    • Relaxation & Mindfulness
    • Self-Compassion
    • Values-Based Living
  • Media
  • Blog
  • Client Portal

Account


  • Bookings
  • My Account
  • Sign out


  • Sign In
  • Bookings
  • My Account

Self-Compassion

What is self-compassion?

 How good are you at being kind to others? How good are you at being kind to yourself?


Typically, women are much better at being kind to others compared to how they treat themselves. 


Self-compassion can take many forms. When I first learned about it, I struggled with allowing myself to show “tender” self-compassion. It felt unnatural to me and my mind often wandered to judgment thoughts rather than kindness. It is still challenging but has become more natural with practice. When I first learned about fierce self-compassion, a light bulb went off in my brain. I had found a way to harness wanting to be both kind and fierce. 


“Women still live in a male-dominated society and we need all the tools we can get our hands on to emerge triumphant but also healthy and whole. One of the most powerful weapons in our arsenal is caring force. Tender self-compassion harnesses the energy of nurturing to alleviate suffering, while fierce self-compassion harnesses the energy of action to alleviate shuddering - when these are fully integrated, they manifest as caring force.” ~Kristin Neff, Fierce Self-Compassion


Self-compassion begins with mindfulness of your experience, moves to remembering your common humanity with others, and extends to showing YOURSELF what you need. 


Is it challenging? Absolutely! It is an incredible life skill that helps people feel less stressed, more centered, more productive, and stronger in who they are? Absolutely!

  • Neff, K. (2021). Fierce self-compassion: How women can harness kindness to speak up, claim their power, and thrive (pp.5). New York: HarperCollins Publishers. 

"To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power. Or the climbing, falling colors of a rainbow.”


Maya Angelou

Copyright © 2021 AJR & Co. Consulting, LLC - All Rights Reserved.

Powered by

  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms and Conditions
  • Client Portal

This website uses cookies.

We use cookies to analyze website traffic and optimize your website experience. By accepting our use of cookies, your data will be aggregated with all other user data.

Accept